Surrogacy is a life-changing journey that helps countless individuals and couples achieve their dreams of parenthood. However, despite its growing acceptance, surrogacy still faces misconceptions and criticisms—often based on outdated information or ethical concerns.
At Dreams of Parenthood (DOP USA), we believe in transparency, education, and ethical practices. In this article, we’ll address some of the most common criticisms of surrogacy and provide fact-based responses to help intended parents, surrogates, and supporters make informed decisions.
Criticism #1: “Surrogacy Exploits Women”
The Myth:
Some argue that surrogacy takes advantage of women, particularly those in financial need, by “using” their bodies for profit.
The Reality:
Surrogates are empowered, not exploited. Reputable agencies like DOP USA ensure surrogates are fully informed, medically screened, and fairly compensated for their commitment.
Strict eligibility requirements ensure surrogates are physically and emotionally prepared—not driven by financial desperation.
Surrogates choose this path willingly—many are mothers themselves who want to help others experience the joy of parenthood.
DOP USA’s Approach:
✅ Psychological screening ensures surrogates are making an autonomous, informed decision.
✅ Competitive compensation reflects the time, effort, and dedication involved.
✅ Legal protections guarantee surrogates’ rights are upheld.
Criticism #2: “Surrogacy Is Only for the Wealthy”
The Myth:
Surrogacy is often portrayed as an option only available to the rich, leaving average families without access.
The Reality:
While surrogacy can be expensive, financial options exist (loans, grants, payment plans).
Some states offer insurance coverage for certain surrogacy-related costs.
Growing affordability programs make surrogacy more accessible than ever.
DOP USA’s Approach:
✅ Transparent pricing with no hidden fees.
✅ Financial consultations to explore funding options.
✅ Customizable plans to fit different budgets.
Criticism #3: “Surrogacy Is Ethically Complicated”
The Myth:
Critics claim surrogacy raises too many moral dilemmas, such as disputes over parental rights or “designer babies.”
The Reality:
Gestational surrogacy (no genetic link to the surrogate) minimizes legal risks.
Contracts are legally binding, clarifying parental rights before the process begins.
Ethical agencies prioritize consent, respect, and fairness at every step.
DOP USA’s Approach:
✅ Independent legal representation for both surrogates and intended parents.
✅ Clear contracts outlining expectations, compensation, and rights.
✅ No tolerance for coercion—all parties must enter freely and knowingly.
Criticism #4: “The Child Will Have Emotional Issues”
The Myth:
Some believe children born via surrogacy will struggle with identity or attachment issues.
The Reality:
Studies show children born through surrogacy have the same emotional well-being as those conceived naturally.
Openness and honesty about their origin help children understand their story in a positive way.
Many families maintain lifelong bonds with their surrogates, creating an extended support network.
DOP USA’s Approach:
✅ Encourages healthy communication between surrogates and families.
✅ Provides resources for parents on discussing surrogacy with their child.
Criticism #5: “Surrogacy Is Unregulated and Dangerous”
The Myth:
Some assume surrogacy operates in a legal gray area, putting surrogates and babies at risk.
The Reality:
The U.S. has well-established surrogacy laws (though they vary by state).
Reputable agencies follow strict medical and legal protocols to ensure safety.
Surrogates receive top-tier medical care throughout the process.
DOP USA’s Approach:
✅ Works only with accredited fertility clinics & legal professionals.
✅ Compliance with all state and federal guidelines.
✅ Full medical & psychological support for surrogates.
Conclusion: Surrogacy Is a Positive, Ethical Choice
While criticisms exist, most stem from misinformation. At Dreams of Parenthood, we’re committed to:
✔ Ethical, transparent surrogacy practices
✔ Protecting the rights of surrogates and intended parents
✔ Helping families grow with compassion and integrity
Have More Questions?
We’re here to provide honest answers. Contact DOP USA today to discuss your surrogacy journey with confidence!
